June 13, 2017

DON’T JUDGE A BOOK BY ITS COVER!

I chose to live my life downplaying anything that considerably limits any of life’s activities. Living with a chronic illness is a lot of work, and without visible disabilities, it is even more difficult living in a world that judges you because of your lack of noticeable limitations.

In the past I have shared in my blog, suggestions and skills that make life easier living with a chronic illness. But, recently it was brought to my attention that some individuals are unaware that hidden disabilities are just as valid as physical ones.

Every day is a struggle for me to go to work.  Somedays I am fatigued and in pain, and the commute is unbearable.  Other days I am full of energy and strength, and dreading when this frame of good health will end.  I have strategies! One of the most important ones I use is getting to work at least an hour before my start time, securing an advantageous parking spot close to the entrance, and conserving energy early in the day, in order to make it through a full school day. 

Last week, the parking space I usually occupy and don’t own, was taken by one of the few individuals that are privy to many of my work challenges. It was disappointing to me that this person lacked common sense and consideration by parking in that spot, knowing how it would adversely affect me, which is the reason for this post.  I am saddened to come to the realization that there is a lack of understanding in the workplace of what a disability is and knowledge that all disabled people don’t look/act alike and by no means are confined to wheelchairs or need specialized accommodations.   Some of us just need understanding and common courtesy, and that shouldn’t need explaining!

 

Smooth Sailing for all this coming week! Mary Ann

  

Comments

  1. C A SKI says:

    Great post.

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